She is very controlling. He is always talking. She is slow to take action. He is quite a perfectionist. Are those words descriptors of you, your family members or your spouse? I know I recognize myself in at least two of those phrases. The challenge is not only our behavior, but the behavior of others. We need to understand the value of each other’s strengths and capitalize on them, not focus on the negative. Let’s look at different types of “behavior”.
She is so controlling – yet the value she brings is the ability to makes decisions quickly, achieves goals, continue to be highly productive, a great leader, risk taker, and is usually efficient and structured. Now that doesn’t sound so bad and could be these are tendencies that are needed in this business.
He is always talking to people which impacts productivity. However he is also spontaneous and loves a crowd around him, seeks out participation from others, is great at motivating the team, keeps everyone laughing, is easy to get to know and will try anything. Who wouldn’t want to be around him?
She is slow to take action and hard to adapt to new environments. However, she is also relaxed, accepting, a great listener, a fantastic team member, is great at follow up, friendly, compatible and sees the details that others don’t see which keeps us out of trouble.
He is such a perfectionist – it has to be exactly right. Yet, if I want something done right, he is the one to complete the task. He is accurate, systematized, structured, a good planner, and focuses on quality more than anyone on the team.
What one considers a benefit, another considers irritating. Think through the personalities on your team and refocus on looking at their irritating habits as strengths to appreciate!
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